This the story of how I became “The Happy Housewife.” You might want to start at the beginning.
During the spring of 2002 we found out that we weren’t the only ones headed to GTMO. We would be joined by the detainees.
At first Sailor wasn’t sure if it would still be a safe place to raise a family, but after talking to several people who were already there, we were assured that nothing much had changed on the base and it was still very safe.
On July 4, 2002 we shared tearful goodbyes with our family and headed to Jacksonville where we would fly to GTMO the next morning. On the trip up to Jacksonville my dad realized that the van we had borrowed from my brother didn’t have a current registration in the vehicle. It was registered but the paperwork was back in Orlando.
We tried to get the van on base but were not allowed. We emptied all our luggage, kids, and car seats, out of the van and waited for a cab to pick us up. We waited forever and finally a car showed up, but our family of six didn’t fit into a car. Sailor had called for a van, but apparently there weren’t any available.
We weren’t sure how we were going to get to the Navy Lodge on base in a car, but then we figured out that I could stay back with some of the kids and my dad, and Sailor would take two kids and most of the luggage and get us checked in to the Lodge.
The cab came back to pick me and the kids up and then we spent thirty minutes dragging our luggage upstairs to our hotel room since the elevator wasn’t working. I was nervous about missing our flight the next morning. The report time was 7am, we had no vehicle to get there, and it seemed cabs were hard to come by around the base.
Sailor made a reservation for a 5:30am cab just to be on the safe side. 5:30 am rolled around and no cab, by 5:45 I was getting worried. Finally at 6am Sailor called for another cab. Once again a car showed up and we had to split up to get to the airport.
I hoped there would be a McDonald’s close to the airport, since the kids hadn’t eaten breakfast. (and aren’t McDonald’s on every base???)
Unfortunately we didn’t pass one, and the cab driver didn’t know of any restaurant open on base that early in the morning. We arrived at the terminal a little before 7am and found out that even though the report time was 7am the plane didn’t actually take off until about 11am. I think we spent a small fortune feeding our children from the vending machine that morning, but at least they had something to eat.
I kept thinking that things would get better once we got on the plane, and thankfully they did. It was a commercial aircraft so no one was sitting in jump seats, and they even served food. Little did I know, those two and a half hours would be the easiest moments of my life for the next several days.
When we arrived in GTMO I was shocked at the blast of hot air that greeted me when we walked off the plane. There was no “gateway” at the terminal so Sailor and I had to figure out how to get an infant, toddler, three car seats, two other kids, and all our carry-on’s down the steep flight of stairs off the plane. I was already sweating like a pig by the time we got off the steps.
I couldn’t wait to get into anything that was air conditioned. After we got off the plane we were led to a small fenced-in area and were instructed to place all our belongings in front of us. Dogs began sniffing our carry-on luggage and one by one security checked our paperwork. Since we were one of the last people off the plane, we were also last in line to go through the security process.
The kids were getting hot, the baby was crying, and I was considering getting back on that plane and telling the pilot to fly me back to Florida. Someone took pity on us and let us move to the front of the line so we could then proceed to get our baggage.
We found our luggage and then realized that we would need to carry our eight suitcases, six carry-ons, three car seats, one baby, one toddler, and two kids to a school bus that would drive us to a ferry.
Say what?
The impossibility of this task was overwhelming to me. I decided it was better to laugh than cry and somehow (I’m sure someone once again took pity on us) we managed to load all our stuff onto a school bus and rode to the ferry.
Once we got to the ferry we had to unload our stuff from the bus and then drag it onto the ferry. The ferry was actually a welcome break from the crazy heat on the runway and the bus. The wind over the water was actually quite cool and I then considered just riding the ferry back and forth for the rest of the day.
When we got to the other side of the island we were met by our sponsor who picked us up in his, you guessed it, un-airconditioned minivan.
I decided right then, that I just had to laugh, because if not I would probably be committed into the psych ward. He drove us to our house and as we turned down the road to our new home I was amazed.
Our house was at the end of a strip of land that directly overlooked the ocean. We had an ocean view! Nice!
We walked into our home and memories of Panama came flooding back. Our house was furnished with loaner furniture and I honestly thought some of the pieces of furniture might have been the same stuff we had in our Panama house years ago!
Shortly after we arrived I heard a knock at the door. It was Grace. Grace was Amy’s sister and she had been living there for about nine months. She only had a few months left on the island, but she came determined to make sure we had anything we needed. She brought towels, food, and other necessities. If it wasn’t for her we would have all been sharing one towel until we could get to the store!
It wasn’t long after Grace left that we met one of our neighbors. They seemed very friendly and even offered to let us borrow their jeep if we needed to run to the store to pick up groceries. I told them I would definitely be taking them up on that offer.
They told me I could just take it any time, it would be parked in their driveway and the keys would be in the ignition.
Say what?
The next day I borrowed the jeep and headed to the commissary. Since we had almost no food I knew this was going to be a big trip. I wasn’t even sure what the commissary sold, but I figured I would probably just buy one of everything! I told Sailor that I wouldn’t be home for a while and left.
I was impressed with the selection at the commissary and everyone seemed to know each other. It felt like I spent the entire afternoon at the store, and I was shocked when I looked at my watch and realized it had only been gone an hour! The commissary was not that big so it didn’t take long to walk down every aisle of the store.
I hopped in the jeep and headed home. The commissary was only a half mile from our house, but our house was uphill and the 95 degree temperature made walking to the store a less than fun idea. Right before our road I was stopped by a military police officer. Having lived on a few military bases I was familiar with the MP’s, but what I wasn’t familiar with were road blocks. I sat and waited worried that my milk was going to turn into cottage cheese sitting in the back of the jeep.
More and more MP’s showed up and they all were heavily armed. I started to get concerned because I was not heavily armed. In fact I was wearing a t-shirt, shorts, and flip-flops, and I didn’t see myself being able to get away from what ever danger was lurking around the corner very quickly.
Finally after waiting for about 45 minutes a school bus with darkened windows drove by me. It was nearly impossible to see inside the bus, but I realized that it held the detainees being taken to the camp.
Then it started to rain, soaking me and all the groceries in the jeep. I laughed, not knowing that this would be one of the three times I saw rain for the next two years.
Life was going to be different here in GTMO…
Apryl says
We PCS’d from SC to Guam about a year ago. It was a complete and total nightmare getting here with 3 kids ages 7, 3, and 18 months, but we survived!! And I love Guam! It’s beautiful! But I am so not looking forward to that flight back to the states next year.
Stacy says
I love reading your story! 95 is a cool summer day in Texas!
Kathy Ward says
What a wonderful story! I can almost see this happening in a made-for-TV move 🙂
danielle says
Toni you should write a book! This is so enjoyable to read! Thanks for sharing it with us.
Amanda says
I got my husband to read this one. He was in GTMO in 2006 for 6 months. He loved the part about the jeep and your neighbors. He said “that sounds like Kevin’s red jeep.”. He loved island life in GTMO and wanted us all to go back, but that didn’t work out.
Emily H. says
Just wanted to say, thank you for this post (and this series of posts). I’m an Army wife and I’ve had a bad Army week. It’s nice to know that comedies of errors happen to others.
Ashley says
Great read! It was forwarded to me by the current resident of your old home at Ft Meade! We are soon to leave Meade and head to GITMO ourselves. I am very excited but mostly nervous about the med clearing process and hoping that we all do get to go! Thanks for sharing your experiences!!!
Sharon says
Reminds me of our move to Rota. Our sponsor was single and a nice guy, but unaware of how things worked and was TAD when our name came up on the housing list just before we were to leave for Rota. For some reason, that info was not passed along to us, and since it was summer, families couldn’t come over there until there was housing available, so my husband had to go on ahead and left me with our 3 daughters-ages 5,3 and 1. Plus I was prego with number 4. We were living in Pensacola with Navy friends at the time, so that was nice, but then it finally came time to leave. There were no military flights available from Pensacola or anywhere close by, so the kids and I flew commercial from Pensacola to Atlanta to New York to Madrid and finally to an airport about 20 miles away from Rota. Did I mention that it was summer and I was pregnant? And I was carrying the 1 year old around on my back in a pack and pushing the 3 year old in a stroller through each airport? And that it was a 23 hour trip, all told?
When we finally got to the airport closest to Rota, my husband met us in a rental car that was slightly larger than a Mini and not air conditioned. Finally got to our house, which probably has the same loaner furniture that was used in GITMO and found that the house was not air conditioned either. And there was no washer or dryer or dishwasher. And did I mention that I was pregnant and it was JULY? And that it didn’t rain until September when we were finally able to buy our own washer, but not a dryer, and I had hung all the laundry outside that day?
But somehow, we grew to love Spain and ended up being there for 7 years.
Ashley says
Toni,
Those were wonderful 2years for me….especially since we had met there and I had the privilage of having your hubby care for me a few times when I showed up in labor at the hosp., or with one of my kids sick. I miss the simplicity of GTMO and often wish I could go back for that, the free movies and concerts, and all the wonderful close knit groups of friends we had there.
TheHappyHousewife says
Yes, once I got over the shock of everything it was a great two years with some amazing people! It was the people that made GTMO great!
abba12 says
95 degrees, a pleasant summers day here in Australia lol! Considering plenty of houses here still don’t have air con I think we do all right! It’s funny how different people are so used to different tempetures. I’m sure what you would consider just a nice cool day would have my fingers frozen solid!