{"id":19675,"date":"2012-08-10T18:10:15","date_gmt":"2012-08-10T22:10:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thehappyhousewife.com\/real-life\/?p=19675"},"modified":"2012-08-10T21:51:44","modified_gmt":"2012-08-11T01:51:44","slug":"sick-and-tired-of-being-sick-and-tired-fighting-back-by-getting-fit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thehappyhousewife.com\/real-life\/sick-and-tired-of-being-sick-and-tired-fighting-back-by-getting-fit\/","title":{"rendered":"Sick and Tired of Being Sick and Tired: Fighting Back by Getting Fit"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/thehappyhousewife.com\/real-life\/files\/2012\/08\/sick-and-tired.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-19652\" title=\"sick-and-tired\" src=\"\/\/thehappyhousewife.com\/real-life\/files\/2012\/08\/sick-and-tired.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"310\" height=\"271\" srcset=\"https:\/\/thehappyhousewife.com\/real-life\/files\/2012\/08\/sick-and-tired.jpg 310w, https:\/\/thehappyhousewife.com\/real-life\/files\/2012\/08\/sick-and-tired-300x262.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 310px) 100vw, 310px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Earlier this week I shared what <a href=\"http:\/\/thehappyhousewife.com\/real-life\/sick-and-tired-of-being-sick-and-tired-how-i-fought-back-and-got-fit\/\" target=\"_blank\">brought me to the breaking point<\/a>. Headaches, backaches, and complete exhaustion had taken over my life. I knew I needed to do something, but getting started seemed overwhelming.<\/p>\n<p>I made an appointment to talk to my doctor about my headaches which were becoming more frequent and less manageable. I didn&#8217;t feel comfortable taking &#8220;migraine medicine&#8221; and wanted to see if there was anything else I could do.<\/p>\n<p>As we talked she mentioned a study that showed exercising three times a week (rigorous) was just as effective as many of the prescription drugs used for migraines. I felt like these migraines were taking over my life so I told her I was willing to try it.<\/p>\n<p>I was nervous about starting an exercise plan. First, I HATE to exercise. I&#8217;ve always considered myself an active person, since I chase after seven kids every single day. But planned physical activity- no thanks! I&#8217;ve always been thin, or at least thin enough, so I didn&#8217;t think I needed to lose weight.<\/p>\n<p>Also, since my back surgery I&#8217;d been hesitant to start any exercise program because the one time I started I ended up in bed with horrible back pain for three days.<\/p>\n<p>Because of my back surgery I decided I needed professional help in the exercise department. I went to our local Y and signed up for a free lesson to learn how to use all the machines.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/thehappyhousewife.com\/real-life\/files\/2012\/08\/IMG_2445.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone  wp-image-19678\" title=\"IMG_2445\" src=\"\/\/thehappyhousewife.com\/real-life\/files\/2012\/08\/IMG_2445-1024x764.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"553\" height=\"412\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>After sharing my concerns about exercise and my back I was guided through many of the machines and given an exercise plan.<\/p>\n<p>I came home from the gym with a plan. I would use the machines three times a week to help strengthen my core (which would help my back) and then use the treadmill or elliptical for cardio three days a week, which would help with my head.<\/p>\n<p>As it came time for me to go for my machine day I got nervous. I did not want to hurt my back doing something incorrectly. After talking with my husband we decided it would be best to hire a trainer to help me strengthen my core so that I didn&#8217;t further injure my back.<\/p>\n<p>Let me stress something, yes I hired a trainer, but it is not necessary! Had I not had back problems I would have never hired a trainer to help me. You can get in shape on your own. In fact in a few weeks I&#8217;ll be showing you some awesome exercises you can do in your own home without any special equipment.<\/p>\n<p>Now, on to the important stuff.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Exercising is hard work.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>For the first three weeks I complained like crazy at every session with my trainer. I&#8217;m surprised they actually kept me as a client. <strong><em>Getting started is the hardest part, so don&#8217;t give up before you get into a routine.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<h3><strong>Exercising takes accountability.\u00a0<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong><\/strong>You can&#8217;t do this alone. You need someone who is going to help you stick to it. For me it was my husband, <a target = \"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/5dollardinners.com\" target=\"_blank\">Erin<\/a>, <a target = \"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/savingslifestyle.com\" target=\"_blank\">Andrea<\/a>, <a target = \"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/thethriftymama.com\" target=\"_blank\">Crystal<\/a>, and my trainer. They all knew this was hard for me and they made sure I kept doing it.<strong><em> They also gave me lots of encouragement to keep going even when I wanted to quit.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<h3><strong>Exercise is painful.\u00a0<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong><\/strong>You will be sore, especially for the first few days or weeks. When I started I constantly asked my husband and my trainer when it was going to stop hurting. Every day for the first few weeks I woke up with sore places I didn&#8217;t know existed! <strong><em>Eventually you will be less sore.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There are still days when I do a new exercise or work on a different area and I feel sore the next day. But it isn&#8217;t the same soreness I felt when I started in April.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Exercise looks different for everyone.\u00a0<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong><\/strong>For me, I alternate strength training and cardio. For others it could mean a spin class, zumba, pilates, yoga, walking, running, cross fit, exercise dvd&#8217;s, or even jumping on the trampoline.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Exercise takes time.\u00a0<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong><\/strong>I&#8217;ll admit that I went all in, but I was desperate. My exercise (and drive time to the Y) takes an hour and a half every day. To get that extra time I wake up earlier. The Y has free childcare so my kids have a place to play when I&#8217;m in the gym. Once we start school in a few weeks I&#8217;ll need to readjust my schedule to find that hour and a half a day, but I&#8217;ll make the time.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>You have the time.\u00a0<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong><\/strong>I&#8217;m a mom of seven, who homeschools, works part-time, and has kids in sports and dance. <strong><em>If I can find time to exercise so can you.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<h3><strong>You will grow to love it.\u00a0<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong><\/strong>My trainer told me during the second week that one day I would love working out. I laughed out loud.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>I said, &#8220;I&#8217;m committed to doing it, but I&#8217;ll never love it.&#8221;<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Three months later I&#8217;m eating those words. I look forward to exercising. When I don&#8217;t do it, I feel tired, lethargic, and cranky. \u00a0I&#8217;ve even exercised while traveling, even if it meant getting up before 5am to do it!<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Exercise works.\u00a0<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong><\/strong>After I had been exercising about a month I realized I&#8217;d only had one migraine since I started. <strong><em>Now, three and a half months later I&#8217;ve only had two migraines since May!<\/em><\/strong> Before I started exercising I was getting at least one a week.<\/p>\n<p>My back doesn&#8217;t hurt. Even after a twelve hour road trip, six hour flight, and sleeping on floors and couches I&#8217;ve had no back pain.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve lost weight. I didn&#8217;t start exercising to lose weight, but I did. I&#8217;m sure part of the weight loss is due to diet (which I&#8217;ll discuss in my next post) but it is also due to exercise.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m stronger. When I started exercising I could hardly do a girl push-up. <strong><em>Today I did sixty real push-ups at the gym!<\/em> <\/strong>My goal wasn&#8217;t to get strong, but now every day activities like picking up a toddler are a breeze!<\/p>\n<p>I need less sleep. I was always one of those people who needed eight hours of sleep. Since I&#8217;ve started exercising I usually wake up without an alarm clock after five hours of sleep. At first I fought it and tried going back to sleep, but after a few days I realized my body didn&#8217;t need any more sleep. So instead of losing an hour and a half every day because I was exercising I&#8217;ve gained an hour and a half!<\/p>\n<p>I no longer get the afternoon coma. Before I started exercising I would hit comatose state at about three in the afternoon every day. Now I have energy all day, from the time I wake up, until I go to bed.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>I&#8217;m not exceptional.\u00a0<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong><\/strong>I&#8217;m just your average, every day mom who wanted to change her life. I wasn&#8217;t a former triathlete, cross trainer, or marathoner. <strong><em>The only thing exceptional about me was my commitment to change.<\/em><\/strong> If I can do it, so can you. It might not look exactly the same, but you can have similar results.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Anyone can do it.\u00a0<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong><\/strong>You don&#8217;t need a trainer or a gym membership to exercise. If you haven&#8217;t done any physical activity for a while I would recommend discussing your exercise plan with a physician before you get started. <strong><em>All you really need to get started is a good pair of shoes.\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<h3><strong>There are lots of other people who have done it too!\u00a0<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong><\/strong>I&#8217;ve been inspired by many of my friends who have made dramatic changes in their lives. They all had amazing success and did it totally different. I&#8217;m including links to their sites so you can be inspired too.<\/p>\n<p>Lynn | <a target = \"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.lynnskitchenadventures.com\/2011\/10\/couch-to-5k.html\" target=\"_blank\">Couch to 5k<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Andrea | <a target = \"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/savingslifestyle.com\/tag\/fat-burnin-friday\/\" target=\"_blank\">Lost 40 pounds with diet and exercise<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Amber | <a target = \"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/couponconnections.com\/2012\/04\/2012-fitness-update-met-my-goal-and-onto-new-ones\/\" target=\"_blank\">Exercise &amp; Healthy Eating on a Budget<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Crystal | <a target = \"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.thethriftymama.com\/tag\/30-day-fitness-challenge\/\" target=\"_blank\">30 Day Fitness Challenge<\/a><\/p>\n<p>J.D. 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